Brian makes some valid points but I feel like some of us aren't fighting for the idea of what we were but for the idea of what we could be. I have been seperated 6 months and their are times when I think that this is not the person I want to be with and then other times when I can envision us having a great M.
It's a tough balance to weigh where we are and where they are when they are confused and in need of space. At least in my sitch I feel it necessary for her to have this time by herself and only time will tell where we will end up.
I agree with you sayitantso...I would have loved for my marriage to work out and my ex be the person she COULD be. But it just wasn't going to happen. Every sitch is different in some way. I hope all of you have more of a chance then I did, but regardles, fix yourselves in the process! I LOVE being happy!!! That was going to happen whether we worked out or not!
