Brian makes some valid points but I feel like some of us aren't fighting for the idea of what we were but for the idea of what we could be. I have been seperated 6 months and their are times when I think that this is not the person I want to be with and then other times when I can envision us having a great M.
It's a tough balance to weigh where we are and where they are when they are confused and in need of space. At least in my sitch I feel it necessary for her to have this time by herself and only time will tell where we will end up.
