The things that are left for my H to do is to come completely clean...oh, I don't want details....I want to HEAR what his self actualization is. I want him to articulate to me when and how he got to the point that he saw cheating as the best recourse for his pain. I want to HEAR what he's learned from this experience...HOW he plans to take the lessons he's learned and use them to eliminate ANY chance of his ever seeing betrayal as an option again.
I want all his mail to come here (not his office or PO Box) AND I want to have access to his financial information so that I know WHERE his money is going.
