I'm sad that (I think) he chooses to get comfort and friendship from exBFF... I'm mad that that^^^^^ sitch makes me question myself: "what does she have that I don't?"
When I would say something similar to this (there is no OW in my sitch) a friend would say to me, "This is more about him than you, this is not about what you did or didn't do, it's about what he can or can't do."
Not meant to excuse my stuff but I was willing to work on things, he wasn't.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss