Gabbysmom you are also right and I am not going to look a gift horse in the mouth right now. I am going to take the help and alleviate some of the burden. I will be putting money away and paying down credit cards. Once this is done then I will be moving on to a new job. I figure by that point I will have savings for a apt or a home and I will be in a better place.
As for your question, my W looks at it this way and why she was upset with them. A lot of there bills were being covered as an office expense. Why were some of ours not? Which I can understand but it didn't happen so I am letting it go. Closed book.
M37 W34 S6 D3 M8yrs T14 S 1year Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011 "I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love