P- thanks for checking in on my thread..... thought I would stop by and say hi! I feel like we're all walking this marathon, maybe even stopping for lunch along the way or taking a back road through the woods.... there doesn't seem to be a straight path or a finish line in sight!
It's so hard to accept the D that seems to be coming straight at us when we still continue to see and do things with the WAS. I would take it as a positive that your W says there is potential for reconciliation in the future- don't assume that means 'remarry', maybe it means never getting the D... just another way to look at it.
I still feel for you about the way your sitch came about- coming back from a war zone looking forward to peace and love with your family- only to be thrown into another war zone... I'm sure those wounds still sting.
I know that your boys enjoy your time and you are helping them deal with this by being a great dad! Being able to put on your 'game face' and approach each day with dignity- is a life lesson that will be so valuable to them in the years to come- you are being a great example of 'man's strength' to them.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12