2004 The Year of T2

[Livnlearn]

Hi T2

You wrote -

My H knows that I am moving forward. He knows that if he doesn't do the work to catch up he will be left in the dust of my re-emergence, the choice is his to make, because either way, I WILL SURVIVE, MY personal future is very, very bright with OR without him.

I was just wondering if your H thought that he WAS trying?

When my H dropped the bombshell, I asked him how he had made a decision without even talking to me, without even TRYNG to fix the things that were wrong in our M, and replied that he HAD been trying.....

I don't know if this was just defensiveness or if he perceived he TRULY HAD BEEN TRYING. It certainly didn't feel like that to me. And we never had an explicit talk about anything.

Does your H know that you don't think he is trying as much as he should or could be?

Livnlearn