Addendum, and right now no one else is involved. I just had a six-week thing end because she was pushing me to tell my ex and get me involved in her family stuff.
I just wasn't feeling it with her and she got the message.
I have a good friend in Iowa who got along really well with his XW, they even contemplated getting remarried, but now that she's marrying someone else it's a real struggle.
Once "others" get involved, things change.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
