Originally Posted By: learning2listen
I know my h will keep this going until he either wants to start a new relationship with someone who pushes him to divorce or if he sees a financial gain from d, both are pretty stupid reasons to me, but I am not him and cant guess where is mind is..



You state you can't guess where his mind is but just prior to that state what he is going to do. You are projecting/mind reading here. You have no idea where he will be a month from now and can not control that.

Only you can decide to throw in the towel when you feel you are truly finished but from being on these boards I think that we both know 5 months is not a very long time.

Continue to detach and GAL. Time is on your side, if you want it to be.

Best!!


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley