nhmom,

Wanted to chime in with my support. You're doing a great job keeping it together and being a great parent -- keep it up!

My W's friend has a difficult H, and they were driving back from a restaurant and their 7 year-old told H "Mommy's unlucky to be married to you!" No fun when kids catch wind of the marital strife.

WRT movies, be careful! I've had some really bad "trigger" episodes with movies lately. My W went out and saw "Crazy Stupid Love" when we just started piecing (which I thought was a bit heartless), and we just saw "The Descendents" -- watching George Clooney break down after learning of his W's affair killed me, I was ready to walk out.

Movies can be a great escape / release, but you might want to re-think "The Vow", may hit a little too close to home.

Keep up the DB, you're doing great!

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015