DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)

[purgatory]

I can't imagine how challenging it is to recalibrate your concept of marriage. You do have the right to claim your own happiness, and to define what a fulfilling life would look like for *you*... perhaps it's different now than 10 years ago because of new experiences. Whatever conclusion you come to, it will not have been without challenges, heartache and LOTS of patience.

If only your W could know how much mental and physical energy you are putting into supporting her on this scary journey for her... she is blessed.

You are a living example of unconditional love.