I said "we have been dancing around each other for months, pretending on the surface to keep from arguing but I can't keep going like this. I need MC and need you to make your decision"
He was angry at first and said "you are making an ultimatum" and I nodded. This may be anti DB but I am sick of swimming upstream with no results or happiness.
he said "fine we will go to MC and find a way to do this or end it"
This ^^^ is great Autumn. You seem so confident in expressing this to your H. You have come a long way, way to go. Now of course you may be starting a new phase or journey so keep fousing on you as you move forward.
