I also wanted to say that you were brave to bring up MC to your H. And it's a positive thing that he agreed! I wish my H would agree, I don't know if he ever will. And the fact that he said "work it out or end it" is also positive. Yes, it's hard to hear, but the fact that he seems open to "working it out" is amazing! Of course, the next big thing is finding the "right" MC. Unless you have someone in mind already, try out a couple of different ones.
You are very strong and resilient, and you WILL be ok!!
