I must be painting quite a picture of H. He's not all that bad, he's can actually be quite a loving and caring guy who "loved" being a dad. It's just that for the past 2-3 months he has not been "himself". I do think he's going through a crisis, one that is beyond our marriage. I read on some of the threads here about how your spouses continue to be great parents and cannot say that for my H. I really do think that he's going through a MLC and I know that I can't do anything about it. H needs space and he shall have it.
I saw the preview for the movie "The Vow" that's coming out on Valentine's Day. Even though the plot is about a wife who loses her memory in a car accident, I think this can apply to our WAS as they are experiencing "amnesia" as well. In the movie, the H does all he can to make his wife fall in love with him again. I think I'm going to see it, but I should probably go by myself and bring plenty of tissues.
Oh....Valentine's Day...Is anyone else dreading Valentine's Day??? H was never the romantic guy and we didn't make a huge deal of Valentine's Days in the past. In fact, last year was the first time he actually sent flowers to my work on Valentine's Day. But this year is going to hit hard, I think. It's more of "what you can't have".
