A good friend asked me the other day what “moving on” meant to me. I’ve been mulling that over. I think when I can remember the positives of our marriage amidst all of the negatives and control attempts spewing forth and I can use that memory to frame the negatives, I will have moved on. I remember a time when STBX and I just clicked. We were as much as one person as two people could hope to be and that is what I will remember of us. That is the positive I choose to remember. I am not there yet. It is something for me to work on.
That is a very fine goal to work on.. and one that resonates with me also.
Originally Posted By: JustStunned
You are getting stronger each day. Try not to over think it. You’ll press Send when you are ready.
Yes I believe so too.
As for moving on.. I know that it will mostly likely be a destination.. but I like to work on stuff.. it's hard to just let things happen.
Thanks JS!! Now prepare yourself for the long journal, I'm about to write.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
