I try to be responsive when a member has some serious angst, but I try to pull back when people are doing for themselves and are moving themselves forward. You sir, are doing just that...
I took my ring off about 3 months in. (Well, it was off-on-off-on-off-on... then off lol) Had it off for a couple weeks at most, then put it back on... I believe it was when I finally conceded to sign the SA that I took it off for good, unless my sitch turns around.
I find it interesting that, for the most part, people who park a thread in this area of the forum, really seem to do a lot of meditative, internalized work. So pull up a mat and take the time you need to find your focus and move yourself ever forward...
