I'm totally with you on this, Rick! If H is so angry with me, if 'I' am the cause for all his unhappiness, then why is he acting like this with S4? H says he loves S4 more than anything, but he sure as h3ll doesn't show it. Why not take a few minutes out of his busy day to spend time with S4? I LOVE spending time with S4, playing with him, being silly and watching him be a kid. It is so rewarding, but H doesn't seem to share that thought. I think that H has deeper issues than he wants to admit and he needs counseling to help sort out his emotions. I think this is one of the reasons why I actually 'want' him to move out, so that S4 and I don't have to walk on egg shells when H is around and I want S4 to just be a kid and not be constantly scolded. He's such as smart and curious kid.