I did the 180 path 6 months ago to the current time frame. Just being a positive person, gave her compliments, was understanding to how she views things, let the small things in life go.
What is HER love language? Have you read "The Five Love Languages"? It's worthy of reading at any point in life.
My GAL is working out, hanging out with friends from time to time, spending time with my son. (one week on one week off) going to church, spending time with family members.
Not enough NEW GAL stuff. Do something NEW. I joined a writer's group, went skydiving, auditioned for community theater, took classes, volunteered at a shelter, got in shape, met new people!!! And a dozen other things. In the winter in the interior of Alaska...so yes you can do more and it matters a lot. There are good solid reasons we say "GAL"...be LESS predictable to her.
I guess my last resort even though I believe it's too late is quit answering her text unless it involves our son. That's about all I can do now since she no longer stays in the home.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
