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She has been LD even since kids, but used to be very active. She orgasms when we ML and likes it, but tells me she doesn't
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I am trying to figure out why you would put this in the first paragraph of your thread but not mention you were an alcoholic until a later post. Can you help me see what's going on here?

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I am an alcoholic who has been sober 3 months since all this happened


Why did it take this to sober up? How many times has your drinking been an issue in the MR?

She said she hasn't loved you the last five years. What happened?

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We ML just 3 days prior to that and she orgasmed and enjoyed it???


Does a man have to feel in love to reach a climax? Neither does a woman.

So beside how many times per week you had sex, and pleasured her.....tell us what kind of H you've been to her.

What did the two of you like about each other when you M? What changed in the R?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!