My son is 11. I have told him the bad news and W is still unaware that he knows. I didn't want him to be blind sided like I was. I think he realizes I did everything I could possibly do to keep our family together. I hope one day later in life he respects everything i've doone to keep us all together. He doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve and though I know he his hurt he doesn't show it. I just hope he is ok.