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Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5 purgatory #2217262 01/30/12 09:25 PM
Joined: Jun 2011 Posts: 847 K keep_going Member
keep_going Member K Joined: Jun 2011 Posts: 847	You can't make the decision... because it's hard!!! I think you are touching on a dilemma I have as well. DB principles talk about giving space, be busy, GAL, etc. YET, in some sitchs like mine, and it looks like yours as well, being distant and detached was an issue in our R. So the hard question is WHERE IS THE BALANCE??? 25 touched on this a bit in one of her posts in her thread: IF your spouse left you b/c you neglected or abused them, then your GAL has to have a different flavor, obviously. When are you giving space vs. neglecting? I don't have an answer and I keep wondering about this balance... Maybe someone has some input on this? Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D

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Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 03:06 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	01/29/12 04:26 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 01:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	01/29/12 02:26 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 04:38 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	sayitaintso	01/29/12 04:45 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	01/29/12 05:20 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	01/29/12 05:30 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 06:18 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	RoRoinMD	01/29/12 06:26 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	01/29/12 05:02 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	01/29/12 08:20 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 09:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Jenna333	01/29/12 10:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/30/12 03:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	01/30/12 04:29 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Grmpy_Mnky	01/30/12 04:33 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/30/12 04:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	kolja	01/30/12 05:36 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	keep_going	01/30/12 05:49 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/30/12 09:05 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	keep_going	01/30/12 09:25 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/30/12 09:49 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	01/30/12 09:50 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	nhmom	01/30/12 10:23 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	01/31/12 03:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 03:51 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Jenna333	01/31/12 03:58 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	01/31/12 12:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 08:32 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	PERSEVERANCE	01/31/12 04:34 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 08:50 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 09:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	mr mr	01/31/12 09:12 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	01/31/12 09:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	kml	01/31/12 09:20 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	01/31/12 09:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	mr mr	01/31/12 09:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 10:09 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	RoRoinMD	01/31/12 10:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	01/31/12 10:27 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/31/12 11:32 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/01/12 12:23 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BklynMom	02/01/12 12:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/01/12 12:49 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	nhmom	02/01/12 01:41 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	sayitaintso	02/01/12 02:14 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BklynMom	02/01/12 03:24 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	02/01/12 04:52 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Jenna333	02/01/12 06:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/02/12 01:36 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	NLW	02/02/12 01:56 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	02/02/12 02:18 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/02/12 03:34 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	02/02/12 03:39 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/02/12 07:40 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	NLW	02/02/12 08:16 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	WenikiTiki	02/02/12 12:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	02/02/12 12:41 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/02/12 02:05 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	sayitaintso	02/02/12 02:14 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/02/12 05:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	02/02/12 05:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	02/02/12 05:36 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	31nheartbroken	02/03/12 01:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	nhmom	02/03/12 02:31 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/03/12 03:08 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BklynMom	02/03/12 03:56 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/03/12 04:27 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/03/12 04:54 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	2thepoint	02/03/12 05:12 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/03/12 06:23 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	02/03/12 12:53 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/03/12 04:35 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	02/03/12 05:04 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	WenikiTiki	02/03/12 05:33 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	2thepoint	02/03/12 05:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	rickb89	02/03/12 07:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/03/12 09:43 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/04/12 12:09 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	ces67	02/04/12 12:22 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	02/04/12 12:27 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	02/04/12 12:31 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Oneeleven	02/04/12 12:49 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	keep_going	02/04/12 12:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	nhmom	02/04/12 01:59 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	sayitaintso	02/04/12 02:08 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/04/12 02:49 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/04/12 03:06 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	rickb89	02/04/12 04:13 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/04/12 11:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Jenna333	02/05/12 03:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/05/12 05:11 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BFloat	02/05/12 07:54 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	02/05/12 06:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	kolja	02/05/12 07:14 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	BklynMom	02/05/12 08:23 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	Jenna333	02/05/12 08:59 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	nhmom	02/07/12 03:03 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	labug	02/07/12 04:13 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	NLW	02/04/12 12:31 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	31nheartbroken	02/01/12 01:16 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	RoRoinMD	01/31/12 09:22 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	sayitaintso	01/29/12 05:06 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	25yearsmlc	01/29/12 06:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late...part 5	purgatory	01/29/12 01:13 PM

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