I can guarantee you, that there is nothing more non-erotic than a man who can not lead and devour a woman in bed.
You need to get rid of your own hang-ups and insecurities, take control of your masculine sexuality, own it, put it on, suit up in it - and then lovingly, kindly, but firmly and with purpose, DO HER.
Starsky and Walking,
I'll have to think about how to approach this. This would be a 180 for me. I'm so much in my head around the sexual issue, which of course, is counterproductive.
I changed my thread title to CL Seeks God, because I think it represents the path of opening-up, flowing with life, connection, being in love with life and others, being pure and genuine, spontaneous, creative, attuned to our bodies, sensual. My hang-up with sex is one symptom of a larger problem. My focus on our marital problems and history is maybe looking in the wrong place. I need to once again look in the mirror, and make some changes, and stop blaming my wife.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
