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H came home early from work...
S6 had misbehaved at school, so H and I talked with him. I had been scrubbing the kitchen, so I went back to doing that- while H chose to sit at the table and read his book (again!) i asked him a few questions about work, and he didnt appear to be in a conversation mood. I had planned to fold laundry next, so I came upstairs to do that....
Here's my problem: I don't want H to feel abandoned/ignored every time he comes over.... But I also want to appear busy and not end up hanging around him.
I feel like I did the right thing by continuing my plan of the day, but I'm worried that he might be sitting down there thinking: "gee, I come home and everyone leaves to go do other things." (this is kinda what used to happen- I would leave him alone when he came home- but back then, H wanted his space because he was normally upset with me)

What do I do?!?! Should I go back down and try to talk to him? Or leave him be?
(why the he!! cant I make any decisions for myself?!)


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12