CO,

First of all, please don't think I am beating on you here because I enjoy it. I understand how hard this is.

I am not , in any way, saying you are a bad guy...

You seem to be no different than most of us here. A pretty great person with suk-ass relationship skills.

I will be honest though....I would love to hear more about you and less about her, or what you think she is doing/thinking.

What steps you are taking towards healing yourself ?

I know that that seems like such a cliche statement around here. And I realize that most people get tired of hearing that coming from the "vets"...

I will tell you this....

Working on those things, for yourself, because YOU feel that you need to change those things that "sting"...

Is your best chance for a chance in the future with her, or whomever your next relationship is with....


I like you CO. I want your future to be as bright as you can imagine it being.

The only way to help you, is for you to open up and help work toward that.


So let me ask you this....

Why do you think you get so angry ???