what's the worst that would happen if you take her to lunch?
Any special days coming up (other than Valentine's b/c if she has OM, he'll be with her then) but if there's a birthday or anniversary
OR later in the week of Valentine's...?
Just a thought-- Get others input-- but I would urge them to read your whole thread before telling you to back off anymore
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016