To me, this is probably the biggest issue for every LBS or WAS who ever even consider the possibility of R... Some get over their fear and jump in, others just cannot do it.
Your feelings are perfectly normal and expected.
Breathe, like you said - let her lead this dance.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
