WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

Kaffe I know what are my responsibilities are...My w seems to be in LA LA land. I'm trying to wake up my w. Even if she hates my guts the kids need to be cared for first and foremost. Punish me not our kids. As I put my kids to sleep last night my d motioned me in to her room. My w was holding her. I went close to my d as she wanted to whisper something to me. My d said to me " I want you to marry mommy". I cracked a smile and got up to leave the room. My w was curious what my d said. My d said it out loud to my w. I left the room smiling in side. I went to sleep very well last night.

Here are some on my 180..

I am trying not to lose my temper. I think I have been successful this year. No big blow ups.

I have been thinking of others this year. Remembering B-days and special moments for the kids and family. Even colleagues at work...Trying to be more approachable. I believe I am making a lot of headway on that. My kids are drawn to me and say things like they like the new me. It makes it so much more special when it is not prompted. It totally catches me off guard and melts my heart.

Focusing on family and friends. Limiting my computer time. Which I have cut down alot. I work with computers so it has been battle to cut it out at home and focus on the kids. No bringing work home was one thing that helped me.