Well my L sent a letter to her L on Friday with the counter-offer. We'll see how that pans out. Realtor actually valued the house at higher than I expected.
One thing that confuses me is that my W has not filed - why is her L sending settlement requests and she hasn't even bothered to file - not my problem, but would have thought filing would have been the first step.
Had a good weekend with the girls - W was working all weekend so minimal interaction with her - and it was all cordial and distant.
Went to the mall with the girls on Sat and then to an ice sculpting show yesterday. My D7 has started ice skating this year so I recorded all the shows that were on TV and spent a couple of hours watching them yesterday. She was amazed at what the skaters can do.
I also drove by a couple of apartment complexes that I've looked at online - I feel a lot better about being able to afford something nice for the girls and I to stay in post D.
All in all - feeling pretty good right now, my W is becoming less and less part of the equation - do I want to remain married - why yes, but not to who she currently is, so maybe D will be good for both of us.
Peace everyone.
M47 W45 D10 (Has CP) D7 M12 T14 ILYBINILWY 5/1/11 Asked for seperation 5/10/11 Seriously DBing 7/1/11 W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11. Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11 D - Final 7/11/12
