Those are all good points which I ive read before but how do you apply them when they have told you they are done and want a dissolution? A dissolution is an express lane D I have limited time at this point.

During the separation I have been her friend and she stated she still wants that out of me. Not that I don't want to be her friend too at some point I just can't do it right now. But I don't want to appear like an azz either. Should I go gray and not respond to any text messages W sends unless it about our son? That would be a 180 for me right now. But I really think it's too damm late. What would others do if they were in my shoes?