Val, I continue to struggle with moving on. I think most of us do. Recently I posted this in another forum. It is after more reflection.
"Truthfully, I do not know what moving on feels or looks like. I don't think I will ever forget aspects of my marriage or the love I still feel. I do know we could not sustain the relationship it evolved into. I do know STBX did not wish to work on changing the relationship into something we could sustain. I know I cannot stop living, so I must make the best life I can. Perhaps someday I'll pause look around and realize I have moved on. Perhaps some of us must reach our destination to realize we have arrived."
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
