Originally Posted By: CO1978
W said said things that hurt me, and would hurt anyone no matter how much detaching you think you did.



Were the things she said true ?

That is usually why things like that hurt so much.




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the dilemma is: Do I let her vent and see she can still talk to me and trust me, or cut it off and hope she misses venting to me.




How do YOU want to be ????

What are you working toward with either of these things ?

Which one of these things are you doing for you ?

And which one are you doing to get a reaction from her ?

Which actions, support your words ????