I am going through the exact same thing. I feel your pain. My W as well had everything going for her in life with me. I was good to her. She has personal issues as well. She left me 4 months ago and yesterday she says she is loving life on her own and wants a dissolution. Her family will be devastated just as much as I am. Reading your post sounds like we are M to the same person. I feel you. I've put in countless hours of work and she has taken notice but just isnt interested either. I hope things work out for you.