Well my W dropped bomb #2 on me yesterday. She stated she wanted to come over and talk which made me nervous cause I had a feeling where this was headed. After an hour of small talk she tells me she wants a dissolution ASAP! Of course my heart just sank. She said she noticed all the changes in me and I'm now the person she always wanted me to be but it's too late. I said if you noticed the changes why the rush on the dissolution? She said she just doesn't feel comfortable going out knowing what's she's doing. Basically I take it as she has found someone else and doesn't have the heart to tell me or she wants to see what's out their.
She said she wants us to remain good friends? (Pretty tuff to do at this point) Dissolutions here in my state can take between 30 & 90 days. Does anyone think there is much of a chance or much hope with her not going through with this? Does anyone have any ideas as to what I can do to delay or prevent this or just get her to open up her eyes to see whats right here in front of her?
I have eaten the biggest piece of humble pie a person could ever swallow. (Which may have been needed) I went from having it all a awesome loving family a nice house good credit to losing it all in a matter of months.
The hardest part to swallow is I put so much effort in DB and she never even gave me a chance. She finally brought out the best man in me that I had to offer her and she will never even reep the benefits. Sad Sad day. Do I have a chance?
