Rings are an often discussed subject. Many WAS take the rings off, even before anything is signed. The want to be single and it is likely some sign of independence for them. But that ring could come off, then go back on, then off again... you would do best not to read anything into that. She'll have her reasons that may have nothing to do with you and guesses are likely to be wrong.
Your choice to wear the ring or not, is up to you. The question is, why wear the ring or why take it off? If you are doing it because of your W, then don't... there is no right thing but if you want to wear it because there is no legal D, yet... then so be it. Just don't do it as a statement TO your W, or a statement ABOUT your W to anyone else...
I hope that makes sense...
You pursued her in the conversation. Something that isn't recommended in DBing. The reaction and words you got from your W are standard, given the givens...
Also, your W may have interpreted what you said differently, but there is something in how you describe the interaction with your W as angry and punitive... might want to look at that and work on it if it's true...
Also, after pursuing her with the first convo, now you are considering pursuing her by giving her the keys back and possibly putting the ring back on...
Your sitch is fresh and you are reacting a lot and you are pursuing a lot...
If you hope to save your M, which certainly is still possible... you need to detach and really get to work on yourself...
What are some other 180s or GAL that you might do?
