Also, just to add. I always know if a talk with my W has been alright or not as she walks me to the door to say bye and wave in a nice friendly way. If I've really annoyed she doesn't do that but tonight was interesting because she came to the door and I had already started walking to the car as she normally soesn't want to say anything but this time she said 'bye then' and shut the door in a stroppy way like she expected me to stand on the doorstep talking to her? So was there a little bit of a connection there?