Oh here's food for thought. When X married OM, I was present when DD asked X, "Mom, how long will you and OM stay married"? Of course my heart sank at the obvious example X had set for DD by her actions but X's reply had deeper meaning; "For a long time honey".
Not forever? ! ? !
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13