Purg - IMO (from a guy) he's checking to see if this is a tactic or if this is really the new you. The questions from him are good and its confirmation that he is noticing (in a big way).

This is also the critical time to check yourself and keep doing this for you and to make sure you are holding no expectations of your H. (and yes, I'm preaching to myself as well)

Keep up the great work!


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms