WHEN THE VERBAL ABUSER IS A WOMAN Simply put, although I've seen men change, I have never seen a woman transform from seriously verbally abusing her mate to treating him with empathy. The therapists I've talked with about this issue have not seen verbally abusive women change either
I laughed when I read this^^^^. Read this before and it is total BS. Big time BS. I have seen poeple change when many gave up on them. So don't give up on you. KG I bet that you don't abuse your boss? I bet that you don't behave like you do with your H in other interactions? Si if I am correct you can control this. Keep at it
KD I have seen people with bordeline personality disorder go through dialectical behavioral therapy and change. Hard to do but possible.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
