Interesting topic.

The "let's be friends" speech is very cruel and heartbreaking for the LBS. I remember mine clearly. Ex and I were driving in the car. He was telling me he did not love me anymore but wanted us to stay friends. He said that he saw us all "vacationing together" when I eventually found a significant other. That is when I knew he was really off his rocker. The only solution to all this nonsense is to detach. You have no other choice.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11