KG, I am a strong believer in change and when we are open and receptive to change, we can.

It is unfortunate that author has not seen cases of verbal abuse changing in women. I have also read information that indicates people with borderline personality disorder can not change...

But... then again... I've also read a lot of information that people with autism are some how limited. I have seen (especially recently) a lot of examples that is not the case. Or how about someone who has no legs being able to run... hey... it's possible...

Everything is possible. Make it happen. Show the world... show yourself... that you can, in fact, change...