25 you are brilliant! Yeah, i did read that letter and it made perfect sense. I have always been the over-acheiver. I thought when I came on these boards I could do better than most and "get my wife back." All the while I failed to appreciate the complexities of this process and not to mention I needed to change ME. Getting my wife back is not my priority now - it feels like a wookie has got off my chest. I can breath. Helping others has also been very theraputic for me. Yesterday, for example, we were all able to rally to 111's side and shepard her through a very nasty place. It put things in perspective.
Thanks 25, you deserve a friggin medal.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
