CDs, Sias, 25: thanks so much for reminding me that this was in fact a good day! I'm glad Sias had a good night with your kids too: they really are a great distraction if you just let them be. they are sometimes THE reason we get out of bed...so yeah, LET them be...
I've been really trying to tell myself that it doesn't matter if the dishes didn't all get cleaned or if there are toys all over the floor- as long as my kids had a good time. (letting go of some control issues)
Good...of course I've always believed housework was low on the totem pole after having kids and a job...if something was going to suffer,FIRST thing was the home. And when I worked full time, I got a housekeeper for at least 1or 2 a month. The uber gross stuff never got out of control and I'd had back surgery. So I figured if I was going to hurt myself again, and be an invalid for 3 months like post operatively, then at least the cause of it would NOT be clearning the toilet...Thank GOD...
Ces, I will keep that memory for myself. Of course, I can't stop S6 from telling his dad about it- and that would probably be more hurtful than if I did it myself.
well, more EFFECTIVE if it comes from s6 as long as it doesn't look like you motivated s6 to say it.
This IS a delicate time Purg. Do your best DBing b/c you only have a few months to go before he leaves.
YOU CAN DO THIS.
And I'm almost afraid to say this so there's no jinxing...but something tells me that there IS "trouble in paradise". I don't get that all is perfect with POS OW...
or her kids, b/c it seems as if something put a bit of a wrench in their "moving on" engine. Do you get that feeling?
Gee that's too bad...Not
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016