After breakfast, H went out to his truck to finish working on the stereo. I sat in the truck with him and helped as needed... Here's what I need help with: look at this conversation: H: So, I don't want to be a jerk, but you seem to be nicer to me lately. I'm just not used to it. M: How do you think I should be acting? H: Well, I would think that you would still be mad and upset with me. You're being nicer to me than you ever were when we were together. M: This is a bad thing? H: No, but I just want to make sure you aren't still trying or getting the wrong idea. M: I appreciate your concern. (jokingly) I can be a b!tch if you would prefer. H: No, haha. I mean you're doing everything right, it makes me...... (long pause).... worry that you're getting the wrong idea.
He asked me again about my trip to Florida, if I had it all planned out. I told him that I'm just going to 'wing it'- and he laughed and said that's totally not like me (I'm normally the one who plans, organizes every detail.)
What do I do with this information?! He obviously noticed that I'm in a better mood- but it's kinda backfiring on me. Is he still resolved in his decision?
I need help with the next steps!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12