Is this cake eating 4

[BklynMom]

My father who went though he own crisis while we were kids thinks that with my H and sounds like with yours as well, the heart of the problem is that they feel unworthy.

The feeling of unworthiness is related to the affair and losing money but there is probably something deeper from a childhood trauma.

Getting to the root of this is gonna take some serious therapy.

Regarding giving up, I feel like this all the time, but really what would change if I did give up, I wouldnt freak out, I wouldnt stop GALing so its really just a mind set. Why not walk to the light