Wendy, Hang in there! Your h is still on a very bumpy road and it will get worse before it gets better. No doubt, he thinks the ow needs rescuing. It's a shame he can't see what is right there in front of him...a wonderful woman who has shared so much w/him.
You are doing a great job! You have more patience than I would have had discussing that poor, poor ow.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
