Hi all, I am a devoted reader of this board, although I never post (well years ago in 2008-09 - yes I have been here a while). I enjoy reading about everybody's situations and seeing the differences yet similarities and following their journeys. I am in a different situation than most in that my H and I have remained friends and still do a lot together - mostly for the benefit of our son. I am the LBS and after 3 years of back and forth "piecing" if you want to call it that, he moved out (for the second time) last June. At this time, I am no longer trying to reconcile with him. I am grateful that we still get along fairly well because it allows me to spend more time with our son. But this type of situation has its own set of complications. I am wondering if anyone on here is handling their situation with their ex the same way, still hanging out as friends or as a family sometimes, totally without expectation to reconcile? It does not seem to be the norm at all. By the way, we are legally separated, with no plans to imminently divorce due to financial reasons. Thanks in advance for reading my post.