Hey Rick, you're doing a great job detaching.

Maybe you're W's odd behaviour had something to do with the news of BIL. Sure, it would be nice to think it was because she was missing you... and also, her being happy at the computer probably had nothing to do with you, either... just sayin'...

Are you still in LRT mode?

Have you considered any 180s recently? If you stay status quo, the sitch will stay status quo...