New trying to DB-Help!

[jlove]

In the last 2 months have gone from "I haven't loved you in 5 years, to I love you, to I don't love you that way, to I loved you when I was 18, to I cannot stand it when you touch me, etc." I've lost a ton of weight and exercise regularly, which has gotten noticed, but "it's me and I can't fix that, not you now, I just need to be happy." Fell like if there wasn't OM situation described above, it wouldn't be so confusing, but here I am lost in my thoughts and confusions as W doesn't want to talk about it. Trying my best to wait it out until she does and keep calm for our sake and my 3 kids. I think we can work it out, but I cannot alone.