Also this on a complete tangent. Met with my counselor last week. As close of a match I could find to solution based counseling. The topic of affairs came up. I told my counselor that I told my wife if she had ever had an A on me that the marriage would be over. My counselor proceeded to tell me I shouldnt have said that. That if she happened to have one she would be afraid to tell you and she wouldn't tell you. What are everyones thoughts on that. At this point I can't retract that statement to my W. I mean we are physically S. Again a tangent but thought it was interesting. My wife treats me like there is another M. But im not sure if she is just hurt and angry from the last 5 years of our poor marriage
