OK that is great that you have gone through AA and appear to really be getting your mojo back.
I am sorry, but your xGF's reactions... wow... no really, I agree with your sponsor. I'm sorry and I don't generally go there, but that threw up a huge number of flags for me.
As you are probably getting through is your addictive behaviours. Have you been to a therapist? What is the possibility that you have co-dependent tendencies?
If you really do want to get back with your xGF, my opinion would be to take things REAL slow and keep your eyes WIDE open...
I have a very strong suspicion that your xGF may do a LOT of elastic band and cling run behaviour. Please be careful.
If you feel you need to sent that letter, that is entirely up to you. I would suggest send it and forget about it.
Do keep us posted on things as they happen. We are of course always here to support you through this.
